Keeping Control

Out of Control

Keeping Control

Maintaining autonomy is not always easy.  Sometimes it can become quite a battle and it should not have to be this way.

You have to learn how to push and maintain your personal environment to keep people out.  You may wish to share with family or friends but they need to know the boundaries.  We all require boundaries this is what makes us unique.  We need to feel secure within our own home and if not then steps should be made to secure it.  Change locks on doors and gates to control who can enter.  These doors are not in place to control you as it is your environment.

Those who live outside your home should maintain a form of etiquette or manners do not take for granted they can treat your home as theirs come and go as they will.   Some people are very invasive and abusive of entering other’s homes and personal spaces.  I have experienced this for many years now and the only way to deal with it was to change the security of the doors and gates.  I was not in full possession of all the keys to my property and did not know who had copies of keys.  I kept the doors bolted and locked as best I could.  I asked many people if they would change my locks for me.  I know your thinking do this yourself.  I live in a country where to buy things are not obvious and a lack of language.  I also have employed Security Guards and the first thing they said you need to change all your locks anyone can open these doors and gates.  I breathed a sigh of relief thank you Heavenly Father for this and two days later all the locks have been changed.

The healing and releasing of all the anxiety which has built up over the years has just gone.  The uncertainty of life the lack of controlling my environment.  I placed a lot of faith in the Heavenly Father to protect my home.  For protection to work you must at least put in the basics yourself.   This I kept doing.

You have to take charge of your domain and all the peripheral areas too.  All bases must be covered no stone left unturned.

Do not accept others to take authority over your own home and  for me it was becoming apparent this was just beginning and now the steps taken to stop them.  You have work along with the Heavenly Father to maintain your autonomy/sovereignty.  Our Heavenly Father will teach and guide on what has to be done.

The healing  – I have virtually slept for nearly three days in the security of my own home. My security are amazed with all the sleep even before I moved here I was experiencing invasive people be it family or just unknown intruders wherever I lived.

Remember when you rent an apartment/flat/house ensure you have the keys, from my experience I have had people come in and take things when I have been at work, out shopping or on holiday.  One day I came home from work to find the shower curtain neatly folded in the bath so bizarre. There was no break in to the property, therefore, they had a key to gain access. Nothing was taken.

I do not understand how people think they have the right to enter your home and do what they like.

Invasive people will use whatever means they can to enter your home from physically gaining entry to using demons to stalk you and your life. This is where protection both physically and spiritually are required.

Avoid letting your life get out of control maintain your autonomy/sovereignty.  You have the ultimate power to stop it.

© 2019 Nanette de Ville – All Rights Reserved

 

 

 

 

9 thoughts on “Keeping Control

  1. IanC555 says:

    Once when I was about 13, I came home to find our back door kicked in, and the house was in shambles. I went into my father’s room and found his riffle was on top of his bed and was loaded in preparation for the owners intrusion.

    In the mid-2000s, I owned a home in a ghetto…like DEEP in ghetto where, on our block, we had at least one murder every year. We had bars on every window except the front which was two high to reach. We had been having work done on the house, and the contractor seemed nice, but he always had this particular habit of looking a particular door that was never locked. One day, I came home to find my house a shambles, again, and so many things had been taken. There was one side window that had been smashed “Out Ward”…and a particular door that was never locked…was locked. We’d given the contractor a key. This door required a key to lock.

    Yes!! keep our boundaries safe!!! The same thing happened to our spirit two; anywhere with in the life this can happen. So glad I read this as a GREAT reminder to stay safe and be prudent with my life. Thank you!

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    • Puzzles of the Soul says:

      Your welcome, tragic when people are so vicious and do this to another’s property. It really blows the mind when unlocked doors become locked. The house I live in one of the outside doors had a bent key in it which would not come out, so it remained unlocked but bolted. One day I noticed the key had gone from the door and I found another had been put in my handbag. Scary thoughts!. Great care must be taken especially these days.

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      • IanC555 says:

        That DOES sound “FREAKY!” To me, scary is like…a movie you watch that sorta tingles the hairs on the arm. “Freaky” is what causes ALARM!

        LOL…NOW…THERE WAS AN UNINTENDED RHYME! BUT ONLY IN SAFETY CAN WE FEEL FINE!
        I better stop or my brain will pop. Dang…I think it just did, for my mind regressed to that of a kid.

        Bye…I think I just had a stroke!

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