Maintaining autonomy is not always easy. Sometimes it can become quite a battle and it should not have to be this way.
You have to learn how to push and maintain your personal environment to keep people out. You may wish to share with family or friends but they need to know the boundaries. We all require boundaries this is what makes us unique. We need to feel secure within our own home and if not then steps should be made to secure it. Change locks on doors and gates to control who can enter. These doors are not in place to control you as it is your environment.
Those who live outside your home should maintain a form of etiquette or manners do not take for granted they can treat your home as theirs come and go as they will. Some people are very invasive and abusive of entering other’s homes and personal spaces. I have experienced this for many years now and the only way to deal with it was to change the security of the doors and gates. I was not in full possession of all the keys to my property and did not know who had copies of keys. I kept the doors bolted and locked as best I could. I asked many people if they would change my locks for me. I know your thinking do this yourself. I live in a country where to buy things are not obvious and a lack of language. I also have employed Security Guards and the first thing they said you need to change all your locks anyone can open these doors and gates. I breathed a sigh of relief thank you Heavenly Father for this and two days later all the locks have been changed.
The healing and releasing of all the anxiety which has built up over the years has just gone. The uncertainty of life the lack of controlling my environment. I placed a lot of faith in the Heavenly Father to protect my home. For protection to work you must at least put in the basics yourself. This I kept doing.
You have to take charge of your domain and all the peripheral areas too. All bases must be covered no stone left unturned.
Do not accept others to take authority over your own home and for me it was becoming apparent this was just beginning and now the steps taken to stop them. You have work along with the Heavenly Father to maintain your autonomy/sovereignty. Our Heavenly Father will teach and guide on what has to be done.
The healing – I have virtually slept for nearly three days in the security of my own home. My security are amazed with all the sleep even before I moved here I was experiencing invasive people be it family or just unknown intruders wherever I lived.
Remember when you rent an apartment/flat/house ensure you have the keys, from my experience I have had people come in and take things when I have been at work, out shopping or on holiday. One day I came home from work to find the shower curtain neatly folded in the bath so bizarre. There was no break in to the property, therefore, they had a key to gain access. Nothing was taken.
I do not understand how people think they have the right to enter your home and do what they like.
Invasive people will use whatever means they can to enter your home from physically gaining entry to using demons to stalk you and your life. This is where protection both physically and spiritually are required.
Avoid letting your life get out of control maintain your autonomy/sovereignty. You have the ultimate power to stop it.
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