This video struck a deep note within me.
I have been saying for many years people who are unable to have children should adopt or go without. There are so many children who are unnecessarily put into care or institutions. It is not always the case the parents or often a single mother is incapable of caring or raising a child. The various Governments decide on the future of children and supported by a myriad of unfit social workers who seem to be hell-bent on destroying people’s lives and feeding the paedophile rings which frequent the Orphanages or Institutions.
Today’s people are more outraged by dogs being put in a shelter than they are caring for babies and children put into institutions or brothels. If find this attitude quite sick.
I will relate my own experience of dealing with Government and Court Social Workers.
When I divorced my husband. Most people who divorce it is usually for a good reason rather than it be a good idea. I divorced my husband because he was abusive and violent not just to me but also our baby son.
I went through all the right channels to get the marriage dissolved and to protect my young son. As I thought, until I met the Judge for my case. Judge Stephen he was extremely disliked and well-known for hating women. Just my luck.
My son had to be assessed at 3 years old by Court Social Workers they were a despicable lot. Even when the evidence was clearly presented to them and one occasion my ex-husband threatened me and them after a meeting. These Court Social Workers stood up in court and lied. They had to give the Judge what he wanted. This was to put my son into care, he had obviously been assessed as prime care fodder for the paedophiles.
The Judge was pure evil it did not matter what evidence was presented to him or witnesses who came to testify. Until ……..
I was given a reprieve the day of my Decree Nisi, I sat with about twenty other young women who were divorcing their husbands and had refused access for their children’s protection against the husband/father. They came out one by one crying, sobbing and some screaming on the judgement of the evil Judge Stephen, who is responsible for harming so many innocent people’s lives. I was granted my Decree Nisi and given another hearing to decide the future of my son which in reality was no future if the evil Judge got his way. I stood my ground against everyone refused to back down on what I believed to be right for my son.
The court hearing day arrived the last before the sessions closed for Christmas. Judge Stephen sat there pompous as usual and listened to the lies yet again of the Court Social Workers which he was very pleased with, but what happened next shocked the Judge completely.
My Barrister advised the court I had another witness, one the Judge was not aware of, who had been part of my son’s case from the very beginning.
My Barrister called my son’s Doctor to stand witness on behalf of my son, this was my last hope to protect him.
The Judge was dumbfounded, at least something halted him in his tracks and he adjured the hearing until the next sessions in the new year. He refused to allow the Doctor to testify.
The new year came and with it brought hope and resolution. I was assigned a new Judge and my ex husband had scarpered. The new Judge was reading through the notes on my case as I entered his chambers with my Barrister. The Judge’s face was astonished and he remarked “What on earth has been going on here.” I held back my tears no time for weakness. Without further delay the new Judge passed his judgement.
The new Judge granted me full custody of my son with no access to my ex-husband. The tears then rolled and relief. I had one the fight which had lasted for over a year. Bless the new Judge.
You see how easily children can be put into institutions without reason the Social Workers are responsible for many children’s suffering and I do know there are instances where children need protecting from their families because they are cruel. More often than not we read about the Social Worker’s neglect to act on serious case where children have died. Perhaps it is because they are too busy filling the institutions with “desirable” children.
The family laws have to change to enable parents and families decide on what is best for the child/children. Include a Child Psychologist and Doctor to assist in the assessments those who are qualified and often been part of the children’s life from birth. Sometimes the parents may need assistance in caring for their children until they can estabilish themselves financially. Important they should have access to their children so at least both know, who they are and how life is going for them.
The current dysfunctional system of dealing with children as if they are just another commodity is appauling. They are treated worse than a dog. Unimaginable isn’t it.
If you are infertile and unable to have children think of the millions in care who would love to have a forever home.