Judgemental is a word people view distastefully. Being Judgemental of others is considered to be lacking compassion and unkind.
Being judgemental can be a form of abuse especially when people ridicule, mock, hate and are cruel to others because of their race, religions, culture, traditions, gender and financial status.
Being judgemental of race, religion, belief system, traditions, culture, relationship partners and financial status is wrong. This is their truth being critical of them you are stepping on to a bad path of living. This kind of attitude is not defining your truth but your learned bad behaviour and thinking.
This form of despicable behaviour is learned from society, family and friends it is harmful both to the person receiving and to the one who doing it. This form of being judgemental is unacceptable.
How do you learn to decide what is good or bad for you?
Perhaps it is better that you analyse and question everything. You have to find away to make decisions on everyday life to live your own truth. This form of being judgemental is good because it is about making judgements which are good for you and do not harm anyone else. This is also a form of protection.
Your own truth is what is good for you perhaps it is not good for anyone else except you. This is all right and good.
By analysing and more important questioning everything rather than accept what others say and do is right or a fact is very foolish. You have to know it is good for you.
Eventually by questioning everything you find your own truth and as time goes on you will change your views over and over the more you begin to understand yourself.
How do you learn to understand yourself more?
Working with your Soul enables you to quickly find what is the best for you in all things. Your Soul is the true you and holds your complete truth.
You have to learn to be decisive, analytical and judgemental to learn what is right for you and as you build up your knowledge of experiences throughout your life based on whether they were good or bad this helps you to judge and make good decision for you.
When you come across a person who is harmful or hurts you in any way be it abusive, controlling, unkind, spiteful and nasty regardless of family, relative, fiend, race, religion or gender. You remember that trait this now prepares you for dealing with others who are similar. You have learned to judge behaviour which is unacceptable to you. This kind of judging or analysis is good.
So depending on how you apply being Judgemental thinking this can be either good or bad.